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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have had an ongoing relationship for a year we broke up because he said it wasn't going to work heartbroken i let him go only for four months to pass and he was calling me again saying he missed me so we started to see each other again i was so happy finally the man i want to spend the rest of my life with.even our children were relieved they are both thirteen. I recentley found out that he met a girl half his age he is 33 i am 34 and well she is 22. I am discusted that for a year and a half i have given my all to him and our kids. Can someone please tell me if this will last he still tells me he loves me i really do not know what to do to open his eyes to things please help me do the right thing. I want us to be back together
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 June 2012):
 Well let’s start with the math shall we… half of 33 is 16.5 22 is well past half of 33.
Clearly you love him and he does not feel that way about you.
NO one here knows if it will last but it’s clear that he’s not as into you as you are into him.
What things do you want to open his eyes to?
You can’t argue about the age difference… it’s only 11 years and they are both adults.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2012): Age is but a number. My hubby is 11 years my senior and we are happy & in love.
He is just not into you.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2012): Would you think badly of a man in his early 40s for wanting to date you? I doubt you would.
Would you have thought badly of an early 30s man interested in you when you were 22? I doubt it.
Im sorry you are in an unhappy situation but their ages are not what you should focus on.
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