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30-35,
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writes:I've been with this guy for a really long time. He's told me he's only fell in love once, until he met me. He broke up with me a couple months ago. I found out he broke up with me because he was falling in love with me and didn't want to risk getting hurt if I ever broke up with him. Well we got back together, cause I reassured him I was in love with him, too. He just broke up with me again... I thought he loved me? He said he would never leave me... What do I do? Do I wait or just try and move on? I need help.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Tell him that he is the one you want. Tell him that he is so afraid of you hurting him that he is the one that keeps hurting you... Tell him he needs to be strong and stick by you because otherwise even though you don't want to eventually you will have to move on... Tell him you know it's hard for him to be close to you but if it's ever going to work with you guys he has to trust you. mabey you could even get him a ring that promises your love to him as long as it remains on your figure. Something like that might show him your commitment to him. "A life with love will have some thorns, but a life without love will have no roses." Maybe you could relay that message to him. If he ignores your calls go see him in person.
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