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He says he loves me but I don't know what I feel or if it could work.

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Question - (6 September 2012) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this guy who I have been friends with for about a year. To start with I thought I had other feelings for him, but he clearly wasn't interested and liked someone else. She rejected him, and so did another girl he liked and asked out. This was about 4 months ago.

Now he has just told me that he loves me, and has done all along. The thing is, I don't know if I like him in that way. I liked talking to him and he makes me happy, he's nice to me and everything, but surely if I loved him, I would know for sure? Or wouldn't I?

I'm in my last year at school, and next year I'm going abroad so wouldn't see him then anyway. He says that if we loved each other the long distance relationship would work, but I don't know if I want to commit to that anyway.

He says we could try things, and that it would be okay if things didn't work out, but I know I would feel so bad if I realised I don't feel that way about him.

I don't want to waste this opportunity, but equally I don't want to lead him on if it doesn't work out, then end up hurting him more later

What should I do?

Thanks

x

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