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female
age
16-17,
*np;
writes:ive been in this relationship for two years now-one of which my boifriend was in the states. he'd tell me he loved me and everything, but after he came back we continued on like he never left. after a while i got ahold of him email addresses and passwords to some sites(myspace,tagged,myyearbook,yahoomail,etc...) and i found him tellin other girls all kninds of things(tellin them they are hot and he loves them. and also some naked pics of them)he's introudced me to his fam and everything i love him with all my heart and hes proved to me that he'll do anything for me,but is that considered cheating? is it wrong to not trust him or be insecure.?
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reader, tux  + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 Yes I will call this cheating.. and I don't believe this guy is good for you.. He wants to date you along with other people.. after all he is 31 and you are 16. I have my doubts that he is being sincere.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (2 November 2009):
confront him PRONTO!
Do not feel ashamed to do that, because you got into his accounts. this was bound to come out sooner or later.
take care of yourself. i dont see the need to explain why you have to confront him btw.
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 Yes, it is considered cheating and he knows that which is why he hides what he does.
He may very well love you, find you attractive and enjoy your company, but he also enjoys the excitement and attention of playing about with other girls.
I don't see this ending any time soon and no amount of fighting, crying, demanding, threatening, pleading, explaining or bribing will make one iota of difference. I'm not saying you're doing all those things. Others have though and they've ended up heartbroken. This is a view of the road ahead with him.
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