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writes:just wondering could anyone help my relationship is very rocky, my man says he loves me wants to be with me forever but yet he hides me from his family if his mum is on the phone he leaves the room and if i say anything he calls me crazy he has promised me 2 marry me and asked me 2 come off the pill 2 have a baby but has since changed his mind an i dont have a say in anything he does, what he wants, when he wants it and he fightes with me all the time and accusses me of cheatin i'm not allowed any friends, i don't know what else to do, i've left but he begs me back and says he loves me i jst don't know what to do anymore i cry myself to sleep and my kids are suffering please any advice
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reader, Miss C  + ♥, writes (23 March 2008):
 This guy claims he loves you yet he is so intent on making it a secret and hiding it from his parents so why waste your life with a guy who acts like he is ashamed of you?You deserve so much better! Besides that point, he is controlling you by not letting you make your own decisions. You should be allowed to be friendswith whoever you want and it is not up to him to decide who they are. I's clear to see that your guy has some serious problems and insecurities aswell if he is constantly accusing you of cheating. Don't feel obligated to get back with him just because of a few tears. I doubt very much he'll change and his promises of marriage and kids seem meanignless, it sounds like his way of holding onto you but I bet he has no intention of ever fulfilling those promises. If you can't think about what he is doing to you then think about what this is doing to your children. You said yourself that they're suffering so why put them through that? I'm glad you've had the courage to leave because generally that is the hardest part. What you need to do now is focus on looking after your children because they're the number one priority. Best of luck!
Miss C xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): leave him. what is the point of a relationship if it hurts, nobody deservers to have to cry themselves to sleep.
Juliet
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