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female
age
13-15,
mebee415
writes:Ok so I have liked this guys for a year and a half. Everyone, including him, knows. He has made it mostly clear he's not interested in me. But at a party on the weekend he approached me told me he really liked me and made out with me. He then sent me a text telling me he wanted to kiss me again when I wasn't drunk so we could remember it better. He is now telling people it only happened because he was drunk (which he wasn't) and he has told me he doesn't want a relationship, but wants to be my friend with benefits. He is clearly using me to get to parties and get some action but I love this guy and I have no clue what to do. He says he has feelings for me deep down but he's having trouble bringing them to the surface. I am so confused! What should I do?
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female
reader, Jmo  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 His actions clearly show that he's too immature to be in a relationship with ANYONE and is playing you. It seems like he feels that because you like him (and he knows that) you will always be there for him to use at will. Give him the boot, you deserve someone who actually gives a damn. After all, you've said yourself he made it apparent he's not interested in you.
-Jmo
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reader, yeahsureyoubetcha +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Find a guy who doesn't make excuses for liking you.
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