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He says he doesn't want sex with me because he's bored!

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Question - (17 October 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22, we used to have sex like 6-8,times a month which I was fine with but now he doesn't want to do it at all because he says he's bored. And it really hurt a lot. Shouldn't we be doing it a lot more since we are young?,I've never had a problem with any guy not wanting sex and no guy has ever gotten tired of me. What should I do? Should I just stay with a boyfriend who is bored with me in every way or move on?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2014):

Is it possible he's gay and hasn't come to terms with it yet? Or has a history of sexual abuse or something? I think there's something he's not telling you because I'm not convinced any 22 year old would be bored enough to stop. I really don't think it's you.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 October 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntAny man that finds sex boring needs to have his freaking head examined. I mean it, he might be on the brink of insanity. have him seek help. He needs it. Lots of luck

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (17 October 2014):

Honeypie agony auntSo is he bored with having sex with YOU or just with sex in general?

If it's the first, I say end it and find someone who WANTS you in every way, including sexually.

Though at age 22 6-8 times a months seems little at least compared to how I spend my early 20's... But again, not crazy low either.

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