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writes:We've been together for a year and a half and and still says he doesn't love me. However, he is the most loyal and devoted man I've ever been with. This is his first serious relationship and besides that, I have no complaints...but I'm wondering if he ever love me. Even more serious, I don't know how long I can live without being loved by the man I love. Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (22 October 2007):
 Im sorry but if he does not love you why are you both still continuing with this relationship?. He may well be the most loyal devoted man you have ever been with, but at the end of the day he does not love you, and after a year and a half the likellhood is he is not going to any time soon. I would seriously consider whether this relationship is for you?. Can you carry on is a relationship that is one way love?. Im sure there are alot of guys out there that would love you like you want, its just a matter of making that break to find out.
Take care & good luck x
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Unfortunately I have heard that there are people out there who just aren't very good at showing, or even admitting their love. You mention a couple of good qualities in him, but I think it is such a shame that all you want for him is to tell him that he loves you and he just can't.
I think a year and a half is a very long time to go without expressing your love for somebody, and with that I would suggest that you consider looking elsewhere. BUT, as I mentioned before, he has a couple of good and decent qualities. So, I guess it's just down to you if it balances out. Only you can know for sure if his good qualities overcome the bad.
In this, take your feelings into account. Do you really want to be with somebody who can't even so much as tell you that he loves you?
I look forward to seeing what other answers you recieve.
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