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He said I hurt him when I jacked him off, I feel awful now, how can I "do it" properly?

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Question - (20 April 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I jacked off my bf a couple of weeks ago and when I did this I could feel the skin going back I imagine this hurt him but then it kinda sounded like he liked it so I kept on doing it harder well when we finished and went back 2 my house he told me I hurt him so bad ...I felt stupid how do I do it the right way???help....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007):

try strokeing his chest, down his sides then around his belly. let your hand touch the area around his penis "accidentally" ...but dont comment on it. just continue to stroke him gently. move down towards his thighs, stroke the outside area first then move towards the inner thigh. continue to stroke him. by now he wont want you to stop and will move your hand to his privates. allow him to set the pace for you. just go with it. dont say anything. allow him to tell you. i bet he will follow you around like a lost puppy after that, lol. good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007):

Next time ask him questions or tell him to give you some instruction. It can be fun and entertaining for both of you.

-J

BTW - don't feel bad he should have TOLD you that you were hurting him. He's the idiot here!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007):

you must have done it hard beacuse it hurts a lot when you pull the skin back and the tip hurts a lot if you bite it and all that.But my advice to you is jus be more gental,

hoped that helped.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007):

Lol ok listen... you must have done it really hard or something beacuse men do not like it wjem you make the skin go all the back.. it hurst a lot and then the top part hurst alot to so be more gental

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