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He said he would get back in touch soon. How soon is soon?

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Question - (31 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hey There!

I am in a really confused state of mind and I feel really lost. Ok let me get straight into the story here. My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago...when we were together as a coplue everything was fine, everything seemed perfect, we were happy with each other. I mean during the entire summer we couldnt see each other since we were both busy with our little things. We were cool about it and we wrote to each other regularly and spoke often on the phone. Then suddenly i had the signal given to me that he was avoiding me and started acting strange. Finally i recieved an email saying that he couldnt handle this relationship any more, this was all sudden and out of the blue, just a few days before the break up everything seemed perfect and fine we were so happy and we cracked funny jokes, and said I love you to each other etc. I didnt hear anything from him for more than a month or so, suddenly he wrote to me a short sweet email saying he will get back in touch with me very soon, How soon is soon?

When i try and ask my friends for their advice, they all give me the same cliche phrase that i should just move on, i was told not to write back to him ntil i hear what he has to say, but i couldnt help myself and i expressed all the hardship and love i have for him. I just want to know what is happening and what am i meant to do now?

Thanks,

Much Appreciated.

~x~x~X~x~x~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

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Thnx Sparkii

Appreciate your advice

Hopefully he will reply back im wating and waiting and it really is killing me im trying so hard to take my mind off things since...hes all that i think about. Its always in the back of my mind.

I really miss him!!

I really do hope i hear from him since im always eagerly awaiting!!!

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2007):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntokay if he says soon then surely that means exactly what it is? he will get back to you otherwise it is just like broken promises. if you wait around and he doesnt reply then u do run the risk of being hurt. if you wait around and he does well then take it slowly work back up if you both want it.

i hope it all goes good

sparkii x

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