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writes:My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot and have a lot of stress at school. We stay together almost every night. I was a jerk and kept hanging up on him. He called back like five times and I just kept going. He was being mean and doing a lot of name calling....so was I. He accused me of lying and I threw something in his face from a while back when he lied in a huge way. When I reminded him of that he snapped and said he wanted a break. I was so mad I said fine and ended the call. That was three days ago and he doesn't call me or pick up if I call to say goodnight. I read through the questions on this subject and one person on here said that every time a guy asks for a break it is because he is interested in, as she so charmingly put it, "another piece of tail". God, I hope this is not right. What do you all think about what's going on w/me and this person's viewpoint. Would my bf say this out of nowhere after 6 years because he wants someone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, Serinity.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (7 October 2008):
 I think it's obvious that he just needs a break from the relationship becaue of the stress factor that you've mentioned. As a matter of fact, it sounds like you both do. You said he tried calling you back over and over just to be hung up on again. Do you think that if he was chasing stray bootie that he would have tried calling back so much? Your argument was already heated and you threw the past in his face which sent him to a whole nutha' level, if ya know what I mean. Let things cool down. Quit calling him every night, it makes you look needy and he will feel like he has the upper hand. I gaurantee you that if you stop calling him, he will call you. If it is in fact other bootie that he wants, then you don't need him anyway. But I really don't think that's the issue here. Breathe deep and relax. If it's meant to be, it will. God bless!
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