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writes: I had a quick torrid affair with a guy who at first said he loved me and begged me never to leave him and we got a little physical. then suddenly he left me sayin we had no future and he doesnt wanna break my heart. i cant help it but i still love him. cant see him with anyone else. he is still a friend and part of my group, but usually talks rudely and puts me down. can i get him back? i really love him help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): Why do you think you really love him and want to get him back when he used you for his own gratification and treated you like dirt?
You deserve better than that, and you should have more self-esteem and EXPECT a man who will treat you like a lady, and be good to you!
Forget him!!!
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 He sounds like a hit and run specialist. . . get in, get out, and move on. The sooner you move on the better.
Good luck!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 by the sounds of it he was trying to make him self love you but it didnt work so he had no choice but to walk away! it started off as an affair which isnt a good thing because 9 times out of 10 they always end up horribly! i think the best thing here is to say when he puts you down you wernt saying that when you begged me to say he proberly wont know what to reply back to you. but i also think he may be playing hard to get and he knew exactly what he was going to do thats why he said to you never leave me because he knew what he was going to be like. what ever you do dont chase him thats what he wants and if he gets it hell always be this way, in time youll get over it ive said it so many times and im saying it again time is a healer!
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