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He said he likes me just 'as a friend'. Any views?

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Question - (13 July 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

wat does it mean when u like someone and u ask if they like u n they say only as a friend?

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A female reader, JessAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2007):

JessAgonyAunt agony auntwell it means wat they said,they dont fancie you they only like you as a friend, just be happy as friends, it's better being friends than no relationship at all

good luck

jess xxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007):

He means: "I don't really want to commit anything whatsoever and I wouldn't like my buddies to even think we are together. However we can have sex. And this thing I am telling you will only make you want me more".

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A female reader, bemused Canada +, writes (14 July 2007):

bemused agony auntHi Hun

I would move on if I were you. You are not required to be his friend either. You are not a consolation prize...you are a leading lady...just not with this guy. It has always been my experience that if you have shared something with someone and really like them and they play the frienship card that it is good to be the independent gal you are and walk away...to something better. Good luck hun.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (13 July 2007):

penta agony auntHow would you feel if a male friend of yours, whom you had no interest in -- not in that way -- started chasing you? Wouldn't it make you really uncomfortable? Wouldn't you start avoiding this person?

If your friend doesn't like you the same way you like him, your best bet is to wait him out. Maybe someday in the long-distant future he could change his mind. It's not likely, but it could happen.

But don't "chase" him. Just be his friend. And in the meantime, work on finding a new crush.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007):

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the only thing is i really like him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007):

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thankz to the people that have helped

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (13 July 2007):

penta agony auntIt means they're not looking for anything romantic from you. You need to respect that and not go chasing. If you can enjoy the friendship without looking for anything more, all is good. Otherwise I recommend breaking contact.

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