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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have being goin out for three years, lately he has been putting his friends first (in my opinion) i told him on Friday night that i was upset and he laughed at me and said i was talking rubbish. I then said it was over, and we argued some more over the weekend. He says he wants to see me and be with me but i can't keep waiting for him. I have tried phoning and texting him but he doesn’t reply or pick up. What should i do as i love him to bits but can't go on like his?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Hi your only sweet sixteen and love seems to be cruel doesn't it....well trust me babes you will look back and laugh I promise you that.But for now don't hound him men don't like that it just seems to push them away, I know you feel desperate and the pain is hard to cope with but sitting by that phone waiting for him to call is punishing yourself and it hurts more and more because he hasn't called or replied to your text messages.You only told him it was over because he made you angry because he laughed at you, he has said he wants to be with you so be patient give him time and in the mean time babes go out with your friends and enjoy yourself retail threaphy and the company of your friends will do your confidence good so don't mope around go out on the town you will be surprised how much fun it is to be sweet sixteen....Godd luck babes thinking of you x
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reader, u +, writes (25 February 2007):
listen darling dont worry because i've been there, i know its hard try to prtend that you really dont care about him! i know trust me how you feel or leave it dont fone him for few days then lata try to talk to him and you may found out!! well thats what i did when my ex treated me and we broked up and look im trying to get him back but listen try try to not do any mistakes because small mistake will end it so be careful remeber try to be sweet with him and dont make any mistakes plz because i dont wana see anyone hurt because of stupid mistake i think those small mistakes maked my love life end anyway wish you best of luck tc xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): Well, I think you might try not texting him or phoning him and leaving him alone. When he is ready to talk he will call you, but being so persistent has just become male entertainmentn to him now and he knows he has "got your number".
You are terribly young to be in a three year relationship...have you not dated any other boys? You might take this break as a chance to do that and to be on your own for awhile without the influence of this boyfriend....try being single, you may enjoy it more than you know.
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