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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together now for 3 and a half years, im 20 he's 21. I thought everything was fine, then out of the blue he said that he wanted a break. he text me last night asking how i was, and said he feels tied down which is the reason for the break. I love him so much and have never been so unhappy in my life, ive cried constantly since sunday morning. all i want to do is see him again. what can i do? please help. xx
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reader, SIMPLELIFE +, writes (13 September 2006):
ok get a grip and listen up.you are not going to like thisbut text him or write a little note and tell him that mabyhe is right and you both need a break to see if its real.the fastest way to get something back is let it go......trust me, i know its hard to do but if he doesn't come backhe wasn't the one for you....instead focus on yourself hopin a hot tub with bubbles and candles get a new hair do andlook great whereever you go and smile when the word gets back it will just kill him. good luck and hang in there
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reader, danny0078 +, writes (13 September 2006):
look, you're relatively young. he probably did feel tied down. because when you're young, sometimes what u want changes and maybe this is what happened to him. Secondly, i said, passion dies and you cannot solely rely on feelings and emotions to really make a love connection or find a soulmate. That would be a relationship based on infatuation which at all is not love. so, maybe, he just does not realise this yet OR, he wants to "live a little."
Just give yourself time to heal and who knows, it could be him, or it could be someone other, but some thing will actually come along.
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