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41-50,
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writes:Ok, I can't believe I am asking this, but what the heck... My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 months. We have had sex maybe around 5 times. I try and try to get him to have sex with me all the time only to be told no.. He says he just has so much on his mind, and his body never feels like it. yes, I know he does have alot on his mind, but I tell him I need to connect with him, and he will not do it. I ask him if he is just not interested in me like that or not attracted to me. He says he is attracted to me, and yes loves me. I am so frustrated, but more then that Hurt. He just doesn't understand that I have needs. Then the other day I was washing his clothes, came across his underwear and could tell by the front of them that he must have masturbated. what the heck??? Says he doesn't want it, but now I find this. What should I think???
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Masturbation is nowhere near as involving as sex. Nor does it have any passion. Wait a few weeks, help him be not so stressed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Well I think you deserve better...after two months, meh I'd walk away.
My boyfriend who is 37 dated a girl for 11 months before me. He says he wasn't attracted to her at all and didn't really click with her either. Hewould make excuses why not to have sex with her by telling her he's tired/busy/stressed or reminding her that she's running late for certain events - just to get her out of the house so he could masturbate.
He ended up hiring on one occasion a stripper for an evening, he had sex with an ex fling and dumped her the day before thanks-giving. What a stud right? To me he is nothing but wonderful, but with her he was a different man - he was not attracted to her, he did not click with her and did not want sex with her.
Why be with someone who doesn't think you're Gods gift to men? Time to move on hun!
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