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He may go studying abroad and Mom said that long distance doesn't work. Any advice?

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Question - (23 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2008)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My bf may go studying aborad for one or two months...

We've never been apart and we've had issues... if he does leave, how will I feel secure that he'll be faithful? My mom said long distance relationships never work.

We do great however, it's just now and then that we have issues, but still, it freaks me out that he'll be gone for that much time, as we've never been apart and I'm horribly insecure (also because when a guy goes to foreign countries, girls are usually rated as hotter than us locals).

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (23 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntGenerally speaking but there are always exceptions.

With today's technology, you don't have to miss anyone as long as you can connect into the internet.

Where ever they are , they seemed very near.

This is a borderless world.

One or two months is not a long time.

It will pass soon.

Since your question is just a probability and if he does not go , then you will not have to worry.

If he is yours, nothing will stop him from being with you.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (23 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi there,

Your mum is only interested in what's best for you, but oh dear you need to look outside your little world and get some self confidence back. You can't live your life worrying whether people will do this or that if they are apart from you.

It is very common for couples to be seperated for periods of time. I have on many occasions - this is what masturbation is for and the internet:). People only cheat when they are looking to cheat as it is real easy to say no to someone coming on to you.

It doesnt help that your mother is feeding the paranoid beast though, tell her that you trust your boyfriend and you will prove to her that she is wrong. It's only a couple of months, it's not years.

Seek professional help if you cannot get over your insecurity issues as all it will do is put more pressure on your relationship.

good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008):

He also has a high sex drive, so what will he do? I mean sure he can masturbate but what if he wants more?

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