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writes:Hi everyone..i am so very confused about this guy.I started to see him in November-everything was great, he even brought me a lovely gift after a week of seeing him. While he was on holiday over christmas I found out that he was sleeping with someone else and had a gf back at home (he isnt from around here).When he came back, it was me he had first text to see...we talked things out and altho wary, i kind of took him back. We have on and off been seeing each other, then two nights ago I brought up the conversation again and found out that even this semester (which has only been a week) he has slept with other girls.I am totally infactuated by this boy. He makes me so happy whne I am with him. I was crying crying so much when he was telling me, and he said sorry for hurting me and strining me along. I care so very much about him-like I said, he isnt frm around here and so I try to make sure he eats right etc..I was hurting so much earlier..and even thinking about my conversation with him brings tears to my eyes. We live in such close proximities that the thought of him being at his with another girl makes my blood boil... He is fully aware that I always intended a relationship, he says he cares yet he does this...I KNOW this is text book awful behaviour...so I guess i need to condition myself not to care about him, as hard as that may be...I am so hurt and I just dont know what to do..i cant even speak to friends about this..xxxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 April 2010):
Cut all contact, and never speak to him again. You can either do that and find a guy who will love you and care about you, or you could let this guy use you until he finds someone he loves and ditches you. Stop with this guy. He doesn't care about you or any other girl, and the only reason he makes you feel good is so he can use you.
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reader, Mr Doctor +, writes (25 April 2010):
Hi! When I was reading your story, my mind back to the past and i had same story but my girl are sleeping with other boy :( I will recommend you to forgive him :( you will find another and he will love you and you will be happy)))Why? if men sleeping one time he will sleeping second ...Just decide what you want
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): Forget him Babe, he's not worthy of you. Stop sleeping with him, he'll only continue stringing you along. If a guy is not willing to be in a relationship with you, you shouldn't give him the benefits of being in one (i.e sex).
Hope you feel better soon, take care hun!!!
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