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*amia rose
writes:boys seem physically attracted to me, but my personality lets me down as i am quite un-emotional although i am confident. recently this boy was very interested in me for about a month then a party we got together and because i was drunk i was coming on too strong and too keen i think. after that he lost interest. i didn't get to know him or speak to him much that night, what qualities do men like in women? x
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reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Shy men like confident women actually, opposites attract. If you are attracted to loud and bossy kinda men then you might have to curb your confidence or hide it but then I don't think that would be easy. Find a shy guy. They adore confident women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): I have found that to keep the man once you have ensnared him with your looks you need to be interested in him and show a sweet personality. Men in the main cannot cope with sarcasm or cynicism and they don't like women demonstrating negative qualities. Always always be nice about people and put yourself out to do things for his family if you get the chance. I have been married countless times and learnt all of this the hard way by trial and error. If you are sharp and funny it can scare them off. Being able to discuss a wide range of interesting subjects, particularly current affairs and politics is also of interest to men. Don't change anything about yourself just add to your skills. Also if possible play hard to get so they have to chase you, not in a nasty way but on occasion be busy or say you are going out with your girlfriends as this maintains an air of mystery and can be alluring. Also never ever comes across as desperate or needy. You will have countless opportunites to try these skills out since you are pretty and have no trouble attracting men so enjoy yourself! Good Luck!
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (19 October 2008):
every man is differen't, some like a confident girl others find it hard. the best thing to do is just keep talking to differen't guys and if you worry about how drink affects you, then don't drink so much. that way you could calm down your confidence a little. but all i can say really is be yourself and there will be guys out there who love the fact that your confident.
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 OK
What's that about the emotional part? How can you not be emotional?
I think that you can truly be attractive to someone if you feel something for them. And I don't mean love, but rather general sympathy.
There was this really attractive and pretty girl...
At first I liked her, but when I found out how intelligent and witty she was, I fell head over heels. Of course she blew me off, but that's life.
My point is that you can still look good, but fail to relate to someone you like.
So traits...
I don't know. Try to be a nice and considerate person. Don't be mean to people and smile even if you don't feel like it. It has worked for me before.
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reader, DoubleM  + ♥, writes (19 October 2008):
 You cannot lump all men into one type, all of whom are attracted to certain qualities in a woman. Well you could try, but men are as varied as fish in the sea. Some will definitely appreciate your acute intellect and personality.
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (19 October 2008):
The problem could be that you are attracted to a certain type of man and they are scared by your confidence.
All men are different and some will love the fact you are confident and forward.
Keep talking to men and get to know some as friends. You don't have to change for them.
Good Luck!! xx
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