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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid i have this friend who is also my crush today in class him and i were flirting laughing and having basicly a flirtationship i really want to get to higher things and hopefully us becoming a thing but when class was over he handed me a piece of paper and pen and told me "when" and to write it down it was weird because i didnt ask or talk about making or doing any plans with him could it be that he was implying sex? I dont want him to see me as that kind of "easy right away" girl i really like him i dont want to be disapointed or hurt
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 December 2014):
 I would ask him WHAT he meant with the not saying WHEN. IF he meant sex, well then you know how he sees you (as a piece of ass). And IF he meant sex, I'd stop flirting with him asap. If he meant going out on a date or seeing a movie (not sure what you two were talking about that can make the note make sense) -then pick a date and go out with him.
Flirting with a guy doesn't mean you will HAVE to have sex with him. Flirting usually means that you LIKE the person and like the banter. NO more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2014): Well, easy solution - just tell him this ^.
"If you are asking about sex, then no. If you are asking about the date - your info"
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 December 2014):
 Good for you. He sounds like a guy that thinks he is "all that" anyway so you'd be wise to pass on him. If some dude thinks he is so darned attractive that he can asume the girls are just standing in line to hit the sack with him then he's not worth a spit. You keep on with your smart eye and you'll go far in this world. The LAST thing you need at this point in your life is some concieted creep bringing you down.
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reader, Fari  +, writes (6 December 2014):
 Hey, As of this moment you are unsure of what "when" means. So first you have to ask him what he means by that before you regret anything. Second thing, you have to make it extremely clear about what you stand for. Explain to him that you are not that one night stand girl and that you really would prefer to have a relationship.
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