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writes:well...i am really confused right now. I really like this one guy and i told him tht i liked him but as answer i got tht he is not in the mood for a girlfriend right now which i understand, because of his past experience, well a couple of weeks later my friends were like OMG he so likes u but then i heard from a couple of other people tht he doesnt like me. So i got really confused and after 2 more weeks i couldnt stand the omg he likes u and he doesnt so i send him an e-mail asking him whats goin on and stuff and he told me tht he thinks i am a really nice and sweet girl but could see a future with me and tht he only wants to stay friends... i was all sad. but he still flirts with me so much and talk to me and i flirt back and everyone thinks we have something goin on..and idk if i should keep on flirting with him or should i stop and try to find another guy?
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reader, bella12 +, writes (24 December 2008):
You should most likely stop this is because one, there's millions of guys out there and two, he's getting your hopes up because he told you already that he doesn't see a future with you and maybe if you let go then you'll find someone out there that is for you or you are in their future.
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reader, When_Will_It_Happen77 +, writes (29 October 2008):
How long havwe you known him? also been flirting.. if u have talked to him about going out and if theres a futre but he says we just should be friends.. He could mean i wanna get to know yo ufirst(which is good). Or he DOESNT wanna be tie down.. et to know him more. Im in the same situaton. I choose to move on, but then i realized he jst wanted to get to know me.. were still not together after 2months of talking, but rwere getting somewhere. SO will u just figure out if hes worth waiting for.
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reader, sally boo +, writes (29 October 2008):
i think that you should talk to him about this. he seems like a good person...but he is messing with your emotions and its not fair on you at all. i know talking to him may seem a bit daunting but if he's a real friend he should understand that treating you this way is not acceptable. i dont think he really knows what he wants and by just being your 'friend' he is figuring this out without hurting you or him in the long run. but he really needs to see that this is toying with your feelings. maybe you should also try to stop flirting with him. this is encouraging him to carry on flrting with you. try and distance yourself from him for a while. i dont know how much time you spend with him but maybe if you spend a little less time with him then you'll meet someone new and be able to move on.
anyway i hope this has helped you
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): This guy is obviously not taking in consideration your feelings. If I was you I would tell him that you really can't be friends and explain to him why? Sometimes...sometimes that makes us guys react and it takes a while for us to realize what we missed...but once again sometimes...so..dont hold your breath.
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