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writes:ok I'm a junior in HS and he's a senior. We have the same science class and had gym together. I think he likes me, but I have no clueEvery day he stands in the hallway after class, and I pass by him every day on my way to my next class. I always catch him looking at him. I pretend not to see him (I'm really shy). I heard that if a guy looks at you, he likes you. Is it true?There was this ceremony in school and formal wear was mandatory. I really dressed nicely, (straightened hair, high heels, makeup - basically big change compared to normal school wear) and he was there also. I caught him looking at me again. and in the hallway where we waited in line to get on stage, he made it so obvious he was looking at me.I dont know what to do. I really like him, but I'm extremely shy!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I dont know to say he likes you just from looking at you. Not that anyone can say he does, maybe he enjoys staring. What I can say is he most likely finds you attractive. I agree with DoubleM, smiling goes a looong way. Its not being outgoing, just letting him know you see him and it's polite to acknowledge him. Being shy you will probably not ever make the first move. So smile or smile shyly but make sure he notices you noticing him, if that makes sense. If he does like you he should eventually approach you. Smile and make eye contact. You should know how he feels soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): He probably does like u. Hes probably jus shy 2 tell u so cuz thts wat shy boys do when they like a girl. The outgoing ones will probably jus come rite out and say so or flirt wit u. But heres another thing 2 consider- how does he stare at u?
Does he stare at u wit a smile on his face or look away when u look at him? If so, he definatley likes u. Cuz if he looks at u 4 a long time, with a mean stare- it could mean the opposite- and thts how some ppl get rejected cuz they think tht the person likes them. But if u rlly wanna know if he likes u, u should try 2 show him u like him but dont make it 2 obvious. Just try 2 start a casual conversation wit him. Notice if he seems interested in wat ur sayin or jus rolls his eyes and walks away. Either way youll have ur answer. Hope this helps !!!! =)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Yeah, he probably is interested in you - just assume so. Why else would he be looking unless you are the only female in eyesight. What to do? Be just a bit bolder and smile slightly at him once. You CAN smile can't you? People smile at others all the time just to be pleasant in Texas. Smile a little at him and there is a good chance he will say something, then just be nice and respond. That's really all there is to it to begin with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): hey ok i'd love to say yeah he likes you but sadly i'm in the same situation and its driving me insane but other stuff has sorta hinted that he may like me, either that or he knows i like him and he doesn't like me back but anyway. Yeah thois is a sign but keep your eye out for other things such as what people say, does he make direct eye cotnact with you, do people seem to tease him or something when your around? just keep your eye out. i don't think i'm gonna get anywhere with this guy and believe me he's the only person i've ever loved and it hurts so much but it all depedns on what kinda guy he is. just keep your eye out and when you catch him looking at you look at him in the eye back and see what he does.
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