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female
age
36-40,
*risteza
writes:Hi,Ok so here goes. I was with a guy that i trully fell hard for, around Christmas time he messed me around and stood me up xmas eve when we were supposed to go to his mums, he just never called...there was a heated argument tears and and a slanging match..we ended the relationship much to my dismay as i loved him so much...after much thought i started to think it was my fault that we broke up and that he stood me up so i tried getting back with him saying that we could work through and that love conquered all etc...he didnt want to know so at this (i knew he would be one to walk in and out my life as he had done before) i changed my number blocked his email and facebook.....i eventually started to get strong and happy and knew id be ok, until one night out of the blue i ended up going out with friends...what are the chances that i see my ex??!! he hardly ever goes out. I see him casually say hi and walk away to a different part of the club...he comes over starts talking trying to kiss me and i kiss him back as i love this boy..we end up going back to mine and after (i understood that it wouldnt lead to anything) i tell him to leave as we argue...he refuses and says he loves me and wants me back....after all the months of pain he has put me through i give him another chance...we had an amazing weekend cuddling kissing watching films shopping eating out and a great week then all of a sudden he tells me he cant be in a relationship and that his head is messed up....im heartbroken iv tried asking him why? what i did wrong he said that it was his head he couldnt be in a relationship and said he wont contact me anymore so i can get over it. please help im numb i dont know if i can get through this again
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 February 2010):
Stop letting him mess you around and cut all contact now. Then when he comes back, just continue to ignore him and stop contact.
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reader, erqz  +, writes (5 February 2010):
It is best to let go now. I have the same situation for definitely a year now. The more it goes on the more painful it becomes. Life is meant to be happy all of the time not just for the moment.
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