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writes: what is in his mind? i am so confused !pls help.he just split with his ex for about 2 months, he said she was always too intense and he tried to distance from her for helping break-up. we dated twice and slept together, after the 1st time, he didnt reply to my email and was kind of cold from me, but finally he replied and we managed to meet again and we had a good time,we went dinner together, good sex,conversation,jogging, and companied me to dinner even he didnt want to eat, and nice kiss goodbye. he also started to make plans with me such as to meet again when he comes to my city for work.(we live in different city). now i cant stop thinkinbg about him, but he doesnt sms or email. what kind of signal is that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): It's much too near to the split for him to get too close to you. Let time be the best healer. Just sit back and wait a while, but not too long. Get out there and enjoy life and meet up with your family and friends, don't wait by the phone, that is fatal. Let him get in touch with you. If you two get serious now then it is the rebound time and things could go very wrong. A gap for most men is usually best after at least 6 months. Then they have had time to sort things out in their lives and heads.
Take care
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reader, TDMB  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 It's the hardest thing in the world but you have to take back seat and let him make the next move. You can't force him in to wanting to be with you so sit back, get on with life as best you can and wait for him to miss you and get in touch. If he doesn't, you'll have your answer and if he does, you'll get what you want, assuming you still want it by then! . . . Good luck.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (11 January 2007):
 it dosen't sound like a good sign to me, if he really liked you he would reply to your sms, or E mails.
How well do you know this guy? The reason i ask is because he is showing the classic signs of being in a realationship, or being married. That the two of you had a really good time together, then he disappears and dosen't call you.
He either diden't split with his girl friend and see's you on the side, or is just having second thoughts about seeing you.
speak to him about it.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): I think he does seem interested, but is a bit traumatised at the moment and would need a bit of space and understanding to get over the split, which was only just 2 months ago. Play it cool, but interested, don't put much pressure on him (he won't be able to cope with that as well!) and see what happens. Whatch out not to be too intense as well!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for ur answer. Yes we live in the same state, and we are colleagues too, we just dont work in the same department and city.I find him more irrisistable to me now,but i dont want to scare him away so soon by acting too active,i really enjoy the time together with him,i wish i can help him breaking up completely..yes i know it is bit selfish,but im getting crazy about him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): Do you live in the same state?? Doesn't seem like a good sign to me. He may not be over his ex yet. And, he may simply be confused. Try to talk to him about it. If you don't get the answer you want, you may want to stop sleeping with him.
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