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writes: i know this is gonna sound sad bt my bf went in the army 2day and i miss him so much already, ive been with him over 2years and normally i wouldnt b writing how much i miss him at 3 in the mornining but i cant get it out of my head that im not gonna see him for another 48days, please dont say its not really that long coz it feels like its forever, ive arranged lots of activities to keep me busy but how am im gonna get through these lonely nights? please help i dnt wana spend the next 48 days with no sleep and crying all the time. any advice would be greatly appreciated xXx Reply to this Question
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reader, GL11  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 hello, i think me and you are along the same line except im a bit ahead lol ive been with my bf 4 2 yrs now and hes been in the army for 4 months, it is so hard, you you feel like you dont want to do anything, get up in the mornings or even eat,it makes you ill thinking about him 24/7 bt i promise it does get better, your doin the best thing by keeping busy obivously dont stop thinking about him, bt think of good memories and give him a text ever now and then to let stuff off your chest, it really does help. and im sure he'll ring you whenever he can, when they first start they do want to come home cause there not used it, but with my bf i supported him and sed no keep goin, because i no thats what he wants to do, and now he enjoys it. soo stay positive and smile cause the more you smile the more you forget about things, be around your friends as well cause thier there to helpi hope my advice helped a bit :)
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (30 May 2006):
 When you can't sleep, write him a letter (even if you don't send it), do some excercises - sit ups, stretches etc (this will wear you out and help you to sleep better), read (again this will wear you out and help you to sleep - I always read books that I loved in my childhood when I can't sleep because I am stressed or worried about something, its comforting and will help you doze off)...basically try and keep yourself busy so you go to sleep quicker.
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reader, lilred112  +, writes (30 May 2006):
 hi anon.. Nothing is too hard for u to do.. ok put that in our mind and remember that.. dont dwell on the fact that he is gone reminisc on those times you spent with him sweet things that he said and plan out everything you are goin to do when he returns even tho it might change each day.. Keep your self occupied and keep a good friend near by... nights are sometimes hard to overcome but when i was in school and my bf went to college out of town i had sprayed some of his cologne he always wore on a teddy bear he bout 4me and held it tight each night and pretended it was him... I kno it might sound kiddy but hey im 20!! lol!! it did enuff jusification and it helped me along... So have faith in the future know that this is a good thing cuz he is coming back.. And WRITE HIM!!! if u can...
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