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writes:This might end up sounding slightly long winded but i would just like people to get a clear picture of what is going on! I loved my boyfriend so much, he meant so much to me, we had been together since we were 17 and i am 20 now, we were completely comfortable with each others families and we had discussed marriage and a future together. We didnt have any major problems in our relationship, as far i was aware we were happy. Then for no reason he ended it a few months ago for someone a 16 year old girl. They are still togther now but even though he said in front of his parents and myself he wanted us to stay friends he has now deleted me from msn, facebook, myspace, got rid of every picture ever taken of usl it seems like every time this happens his new gf is online, so is it her influece or is it him? and he refuses to talk to me, as if it was my fault.i feel so alone and all i keep seeing is pictures of the two of them from all the parties he is taking her to or little captions about how happy he is and how much he loves her. I just dont understand, we were fine, he was telling me he loved me the same as always, and now it is like i never mattered at all. He is trying to wipe out every trace of me ever being in his life, and i am finding it so hard people keep saying just go out and have fun but i loved him so much, he has acted so badly but i still miss him and care about him and wish he would come back. what do i do, i havent seen him for months, no contact, nothing :(
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reader, Arcada +, writes (31 May 2008):
Listen love, you say you feel alone?
Please, if I can do anything, it's to let you know that you are not alone!
I was with someone that broke my heart, completely.
I honestly believed him. But you need to face the truth, he wasn't the one!
You can do better,
If he loved you, he wouldn't treat you this way!
If you wanna message me, you know you can,.......anytime!
xxxx
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reader, whatsTrueLove?  +, writes (28 May 2008):
I'm so sorry, but i'm going to something really, really similar. I was with her for almost 3 years, and then she just up and leaves me for some guy she just meet, I tried maintaining my friendship with her, but she just wants nothing to do with me. its been a couple of months now, and i haven't spoken to her at all.
I wish i could give you advice, but all i can say is that your not the only one going through it. Yes she did treat me terribly, yes she broke my heart, and i deserve better...but it doesn't matter, i just miss her so much and wish she would come back...
The only real thing i could suggest, is just don't look at his facebook/myspace. I know its hard, but just try and do things that make you happy...
I'm so sorry, and i know nothing i could say is gonna make it better, but just try and be happy...message me anytime if you wanna talk :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): it sounds really difficult , unfortunetly hun it is really difficult to just be friends with someone afterwards because theres a real mixture of feelings , it sounds like you still have feelings and i think that you will only tourture yourself by trying to be frinds with him, i tried it with my ex gf and it tore me apart. As far as all the deleting you thing, i did it too, it wasnt out of spite or anything nasty like that although she took it that way i just couldnt bear to see all her photos and stuff and be reminded of her. She took it thinking i was being nasty or whatever but it wasnt the case , dont be mad at him for doing what hes done if you dont know why, maybe send him a nice short message like how are you sort of thing see how he responds.
Hope this helps xx
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reader, chihuahua1274 +, writes (27 May 2008):
 AWW try calling him or go right to his house and ask him what the deaal is if he doesnt reply go to his gfs house or call her ask her what her freakin problem is (shes gotta have one she sounds really messed up) if nothing works try showing how much you care for him send him flowers and stuff make a new account on mysoace msn and facebook fet rell him you are one of your friends than get your info dont EVEr tell him it was you it will ruin the relationship you gained tell him you loved him and you always will make sure he thinks it is yur friend i hope you and him have best of luck tah tah
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): move on with your life that is what he is doing so why bother with him you need to relize there is nothing you now can do about it so yes have fun miss him but dont want him back your not a door mat you have feelings he left you now go out there and live your life hes not waitting around for you hes with her hes big mistake say oh well you should be the one erasing all of him from your life not him, dont let him get to you,
you cant make him be with you and you feeling sorry for your self and letting him get to you and trying to talk to him is just making you look bad and putting you in a bad situation if you know what i mean so yes give time a chance to heal but also dont let him get to you because hunny you deserve alot more than a man that is going to treat you the way he has treated you which is so sad on hes part
but theres nothing you can do to fix that so all you can do is pick up the pieces of your self not easy and not fun and rebuild your life and heart also trust
it wont ever be easy when you care so much but you wont be getting anywhere by sitting there hoping he relizes he made a big mistake and come crawling back and even if he did you cant take him back
LOOK AT WHAT HE HAS DONE TO YOU AND HURT YOU WITH OUT A CARE IN THE WORLD WHAT A JERK OFF
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