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He is sabotaging everything

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Question - (29 May 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

so theres this new guy on the scene met him about 3 wks ago now and im really happy with how things are going so far.

But y'day morning i chatted to my ex online and he turns round and says oh he's just using you for sex, i rang him but he said thats not true atall.

I'm still crazy about my ex but i really wanna move on and take a shot with this new guy, but i feel like my ex is interfering he's made it perfectly clear how he feels.

so why does it feel like he's hell bent on sabotaging everything even though he says he doesnt care anymore??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006):

First of all, why would you believe what your ex said about that guy using you for sex? I mean, does he even know that person? Second, I know that since you're crazy about your ex still, you want to stay in touch with him - at the back of your mind, you want him back, though your consciousness says you want to move on.

With the second comment said, I believe if you want to truly move on, you should definitely not talk to your ex anymore - at least for awhile. Only after things have settled with your own life, will you have a clearer view of what you truly desire.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2006):

Angelicc agony auntWhy are you talking to your ex?? If you two decided to be friends, he doesn't sound as if he's being friendly. I think you should cut him off for awhile give you time to move on with this new guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006):

he's just jealous. he's got problems with forming a relationship with you because he's an inadequate man. he doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to make you happy either. ignore him, cut all your ties with him and go and enjoy your new guy! if you stay with ex it will only be another rollercoaster ride, and you deserve better.

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