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He is not sexually stimulated by me, could he be gay?

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Question - (21 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've known him for a long time and before I knew him properly I heard roomers about him being with a guy once. I asked him about it before we went out and he asured me that 'he was just a kid and confused. He wanted to see who/what he was and he know that now, he's straight' He's never had anal, just foreplay with a man, of which I believe he reseaved rather than gave. he's now 18 and was 15 when this gay thing happened.

He's a very 'pretty' looking boy and always turned out well. He's really sweet and caring and sensitive, more so than most men, which is really nice but becasue of his past I question it.

in other ways he's quite manly - He gets angry and wants to fight other men sometimes, he plays rugby and although i say he's a 'pretty boy', he has unshaven stubbble.

Recently we started...getting sexy. We havnt had sex yet. When he touches me he watches what he's doing and seems interested and doesn't cringe or anything. However no matter how long we make out for before or how much i moan or do little things to turn him on when he's touching me, he can't seem to get it up at all, which makes me question whether he is actually gay...

Is he gay? :/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010):

If he's not a full blown gay then he is at the very least very confused about his sexual orientation. You desscribe him as a pretty boy, more sensitive than most men. Sounds to me like you're describing a girl. I don't think he turns you on as a man and that's also where your doubts are coming from.

Get yourself a manly man with no gay stuff on his record; not some pretty kid who like to make out with boys.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010):

Gurl Rule One:

If you suspect it, then you're probably right.

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