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writes:I have met a guy on a dating website and we have been out 2x now for something to eat and drink. Physically I quite like him but I feel that the conversation is boring...it's hard work...He also so mean and never offers to pay me a drink...complains alot about his life... job (he's a teacher)....that he's got to much work, earns very little...hasn't got many friends around here...etc! He also doesn't seem interested on what I say cause he couldn't remember what we have last spoken about...I mean things I told him about myself...also he never said that I looked nice and I didn't see him looking at me like a man who is interested would do not even once! Even so, he still wants to go out with me?!Do you think he is only looking for a girl to be friend with? Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 He's not interested in you in the way you want him to be, he's more interested in having someone to complain to and get sympathy from.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys! Yes I can do better and won't waste my time anymore! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys! Yes I can do better and won't waste my time anymore! x
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reader, luv2luvme +, writes (5 February 2011):
 Misery loves company. It sounds like he is only looking for a shoulder to cry on.I advice you to move on but first give this guy a piece of your mind. Tell him to man up and stop complaining.Lastly tell this guy that any teacher who complains about their career should not be in the field of molding young children.
Find someone who is interested in you. I wish you the best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): It sounds like he wants to see you because he knows that you like him, and that feeds his ego.
Read over your post again and ask yourself, if your best friend came to you with the same situation, what would you tell her?
You can do so much better than this guy.
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reader, smartgirl100 +, writes (5 February 2011):
Maybe, but why waste your time? You've already said that he's mean, cheap, a complainer, uninterested and boring - after only 2 dates. Why bother when you know that it isn't right? You can do better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): i sorry but i think he needs more of a friend right now and that your to good for him but,i'm not saying that you should not try it but just ask him straight out how he thinks of you as.
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