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writes:Ive never wrote to 1 of these before but Im in need of some advice. Ive met a man who really wants to be with me, but at the moment he is living with some one. He is not happy but every time he splits up with her she stops him seeing his son. Its getting me down a lot and Im starting to think if I should wait for him or not as he keeps saying we will be together soon, he just needs to sort things out. I just dont know what to do anymore.*note from moderator: I have corrected this, but in the future use punctuation and capitalization, not one giant run on sentance. It makes it much easier to read your question. Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 June 2007):
 If he was that serious about wanting to be with you he would leave her and be with you.
No court in the land would allow her to stop him seeing his child, so he could go to court and get that sorted , it's just excuses.
You should tell him you have had enough of this and you are moving on and if he really likes you he will take the necessary steps needed.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): Dear,
Why are you settling for a man that is not available to you? He has a child with this woman, and he is living with her, their relationship is in trouble and instead of working on that with HER, he is bouncing around with you so he does not have to be alone and be an adult and sort out his own life....telling you he is unhappy with her is besides the point, he isn't giving you anything and your are expecting and accepting nothing from him. Stop justifying his behavior with the excuses that he is telling you, all that matters is his actions and they speak louder than words. Stay out of his life, he is some other woman's man, and the problems they have are not being helped by you taking him in.....surely you think more of yourself than to accept this kind of half ass relationship from someone who is not in love with you enough to step up and claim you.
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