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He is engaged and has a child and I can't seem to get him out of my head!

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Question - (16 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I was seeing this guy but the problem is he is 32 years old and i'm only 18 he is also engaged with a child. I recently met somebody else and we have just decided to have a relationship but i cant seem to get this other guy off my mind and every time i see him i flirt with him and i just don't know how to stop these feelings please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008):

Ahhh u remind me of this 35 year old (teacher) who i'm head-over-heals for and is engaged with a child... It's so depressing isn't it? I think you shud just let him go! Running after him will only make the pain worse, because the chances are, he won't leave his family for you. xx

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom + , writes (17 May 2008):

lexilou agony auntIf this went further what about the bigger picture. He gts hurt emotionally when he has tell his kids and wife to be he is leaving, families get hurt seeing the ones they love having to pick up the pieces etc, and then it could all go wrong and you could get hurt too. At the moment its only you hurting so get him out of your head and move on. If he had wanted to be with you he would be. If its not you it will be some other 18 year old that he will string along. Take a chance on this new guy who wants just you and get some happiness in your life x

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A female reader, LIERIN United States +, writes (16 May 2008):

LIERIN agony auntI have only one true answer ...

GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HEAD NOW OR IT WILL BE TOO LATE!

He is not going to be with you, he has a child and is engaged. You will be always the second one if u lucky. Do not worry about him, he was just using you for sex ... go to your new BF and forget the old one!

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