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writes:hey im 16 and so is my boyfriend who i have been with for 5 months.today we were talking about our dreams and i was asking him if he had any about me ever. He said he does but he doesn't really want to tell me what some of them are. Then he said 'well cant you guess why I'm not going to tell you some of them and what they are about?'and i just pretended i knew why and what he was talking about. but i dont really. i asked my mate an she said its cos the dreams are sexual.what sort of sexual things could be happening in his dream then? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miss_Oz +, writes (19 May 2007):
 He is more than likely having sexual dreams about you but instead of being annoyed that he won't be upfront about it, be glad that he is trying to keep you from being uncomfortable by telling you every detail and suggesting you try it for real. You're both young and five months isn't a long time; if you guys haven't had sex yet, then he clearly doesn't want to rush you. If so, perhaps these dreams are a little kinky or naughty and he is simply shy/embarassed to tell you. Either way, his reservation is respectful and maybe he feels he has to keep quiet if you've shown annoyance about this, or lack of interest. You just have to remember that dreams are random and uncontrollable, so you can't in fairness give him any grief about this. Anything at all could be happening, from him dreaming about you simply being naked with him to full-blown intercourse; it doesn't really matter what the specifics are, as they aren't necessarily a reflection on his personal tastes. In time maybe you can talk about these dreams together and maybe even get some enjoyment out of it. For now, there is nothing to worry about; on the contrary, if he has these dreams about you, it's one sign of his attraction to you. Let him tell you when he's comfortable; pushing him into parting with information he'd rather keep to himself may make him less likely to want to be open with you in future.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Dreams are dreams! He probably is talking about sexual dreams in your case, and as for what could be going on in his mind? Any kind of sexual things could be going on in these dreams! The possibilities are endless.
However, just because he dreams them doesn't mean that you have to do them or that he even wants to do them! Sometimes dreams can just be crazy.
It's probably hard to describe them (and embarrassing!) so let him be about what goes on in his sleep.
May you have happy dreams of your own, sweetness!
xxIndia
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