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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Please help me get over this man. I met him 4 months ago and liked him straight away. Our first date he told me doesn't want a relationship and I said I didn't (but I do) anyway...upshot.been 4 months and we see each other for whole weekend every fortnight and we have great time together and we have pet names and talk about babies and future together. Now I know he doesn't want a relationship, but I feel we've become closer then just sleeping together....however, I know he goes with other women (one night stands) and as stupid as it says never bothered me as I was his girl. Except...now I realise I wasn't or am!! A few things his said to me in past, one thar he doesn't think were right together and two that his holding out till he meets a woman and falls in love with...always he doesn't mind me going off with other man (which he says proves I'm not the one more then sex) actually when I read what I've wrote it makes me think what are you doing....but I am attached and there lies the issue. Anyway, recently his been cold... As despite all I've said he texts me everyday and calls me all time and admitted last time we saw each other that his friends call me the girlfriend etc etc...all very lovely and relationshipy. Now though last 2 weeks gone distance. He hardly contacts me. Added 4 different pretty women to Facebook and seems so distance...I think his met someone, either one of goes on Facebook or at his company (started new job recently) or through new girl his become mates with! Now I don't know what to do. I need to let him go, as it's pretty obvious his gone off me and has a new leading lady... But how?! As his not good for me and like said pretty sure his gone off me.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Sadly, you will just have to stop contacting him and delete all his numbers and details. That's the first step. Unfortunately, he wasn't interested in a future with you or anyone else it seems. Don't contact him again and things will gradually begin moving forward for you.
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