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16-17,
anonymous
writes:So I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, and on valentine's day we were sitting on his room watching a film and normaly talking/cuddling then from nowhere he starts talking about "the future" and saying how he wishes we'd spend the rest of our lives together and etc.. he even had names for the babies we'd have. And that kinda freaked me out a littleSo i accidently told him to shut up..He then turns the tv off, sits in front of me look in my eyes and say"Dont you wna be with me?"I said "is not that.." then i never said anything else..and he got upset.. Cos i could see how his eyes were filled with fury and agony -.-'Now he doesn't talk that much and his acting weird. Then yesterday he tells me before yesterday he tells me he has a surprise and he wants me to come down. I got to his house and blah and he gets on his knee and gives me an engagement ring.. But i told him i needed time to think and that broke him a little again ¬¬'I don't know.. maybe im just an idiot.. I feel guilty for hurting him so much. But at the same time i dont think ive done nothing wrongand i felt like saying yes to him but.. errIs not like i dont love him, because i truly doand i cant barely stand to stay just a second away from him =/ and is not like i never imagined us getting married aswell..Im so confused.. i dont know what to do =/Am I just being a meanie or someone who likes to hurt other people's feelings or something?Because deep inside i realy wants to say yes..I dont get it..any ideas?Thank you xx Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): Yes he's going too fast! you are totally in the right here. I would properly freak if a boyfriend start talking about kids and marriage at such a young age. Just stick to your guns
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 tell him you want to get married but that your not ready yet, so that if hes ok with a long engagment then you will say yes. but only tell him that if you really could marry him.
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reader, prettypinkiebaby +, writes (19 February 2009):
 well if u really love him say yes and everything will work out!! but if u need time to think tell him and if he really loves u he'll be a little hurt but he'll respect that. u kinda have to choose. if u reeeeally truly love him tell him how u feel. 3 lemme kno how things go!
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