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He fingered me with sperm on his hand - now my period is late and I feel bloated!

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Question - (15 November 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

my boyfriend fingered me about two months ago and he may have had sperm on his finger whilst doing it. i havent had my period since and its never usually late and my tummy is bloated. could i be pregnant?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2006):

Yeh i think you could be!y didnt he wash his hands?

i made my bf come on my hand i then washed them with soap and water im worried i didnt do it thoroughly enough i then put my fingers in my vagina to check of bleeding as he hurt me before, could i be pregnant?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006):

crap.. that happened to me last night!!!

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A female reader, Lemonpixie United States +, writes (16 November 2006):

Lemonpixie agony auntsperm does not die the second it is outside.... that is completely untrue... sorry to say but it is very possible you are pregnant. why didn't he wash his hands off? Usually outside it lasts 2-3 hours so the anon post is dead wrong!

Stress can make your period late as well but 2 months is a long while... go get a preganacy test from a drugstore, or go to a clinic asap

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):

Stress of worrying if your pregnant or not can delay your periods. You can actually trick you body into thinking you are pregnant by thinking you really are. If your bloated you will probably start soon, but get a test just to be safe.

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2006):

maxsteel86 agony auntTotally disagree with that anon post, sorry if this worries you but yeah its possible. Sperm can easily survive a day in the open (so long as its not too cold) so it could've been on his finger, though the chances of getting pregnant from it is pretty low (still not zero!). I'm surprised its this late yet you haven't gotten a pregnancy test kit yet! Do that fast so you know whats happening

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (15 November 2006):

stina agony auntJust so that there is no confusion and so you don't get the facts wrong from the anon poster below, here is a thread on an ob/gyn websites discussing the very thing you are talking about. There are several doctors that state it is possible to become pregnant in the way you've described:

http://forums.obgyn.net/pregnancy-birth/P-B.0003/0794.html

You could also ask your doctor to verify what these physicians have stated so you know for the future.

Take care.

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (15 November 2006):

stina agony auntHi Anon,

If he fingered you and sperm was on his finger, then yes, you could be pregnant. (But don't worry yet - you might not be. Sometimes stress can cause late periods and you could feel bloated b/c of pms, etc.)

You should go to your pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test or schedule a doctor appointment to be tested. Home pregnancy tests are very accurate - they measure the HCG levels in your urine. (HCG is a hormone that is produced only when a female is pregnant.)

If it turns out that you're pregnant, then you need to make a doctor appointment at your ob/gyn. It sounds like you are still young, so you will also need to tell your parents or someone close to you who can help you through this, okay? They may be disapponited, but they will most likely get over it and will be there for you. They will also be able to help you come to a decision on if you want to keep it, give it up for adoption, have an abortion, etc. Just remember the final decision is up to YOU though.

Don't worry - just take the pregnancy test. If you're not pregnant then great! If you are, you will have the support you need from your family. If you are afraid to tell them, maybe tell another adult who is close to you. They may be able to help you break the news so you feel more comfortable or else at least guide you.

Take care.

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