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He ended it saying he had personal problems, but should I try to get in contact again anyway?

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Question - (5 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone i would like to give thanks in advice for the advice that is given :)

wow, i have no idea where to start..

i was seeing a guy called liam over the summer of '09 and it ended as he wanted to get back with his ex (he was still in love with her).

so that ended and then i started seeing another guy called aidan but that just fizzled out.. i don't really know what happened with that but he just stopped contact with me for some reason and i thought things were going really great with us,

so after me and aidan broke up i got back in contact with liam (he'd broken up with the ex) for one night and it was just a rebound. I felt really dirty afterwards knowing that i'd performed oral sex on him and it was just a pick me up.

So i stopped contacting liam and we haven't spoken since.. now i really miss aidan again!

I really really want to get back to where we left it but there must be some reason for why it stopped. whenever i asked him he just said he had 'personal problems' but wasnt very convincing.

Do you guys think i should re-contact aidan or just leave it and stay single until someone else comes along, im in no rush with being with someone straight away but i really miss him!

Please help ! :)

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A female reader, Sydnee United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2010):

Dear Anon

It's been a good while now since you were with Aidan

why not get in touch? But, don't jump in with both feet, test the water see how he feels about things be friendly

if it works out great! if not even after the time apart, move on in your own time stay single until the right guy comes along to sweep you off your feet

Good Luck

Sydnee x

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