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writes:my boyfrend(22) and i(19) had been goin out 3months we had a big argument yesterday bcoz i told mi boyfrend that i texted my ex boyfrend a few weeks ago we wer jus chattin about work(the 3 of us work together) but now my boyfrend dumped me today and says he cant trust me ever again but i didnt sleep wit my ex boyfrend it was only a tiny once off drunken chat,thats all, so why is he being so odd?
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reader, asho320 +, writes (14 April 2007):
asho320 is verified as being by the original poster of the question THANK U FOR UR REPLY ANNOYMUS
i was drunk so i texted my ex it was a once off and it was about work and i delted all the messages so my bf actually never saw them but i deleted my ex's number a year ago but i still know it off by heart anyways my boyfrend crawled back to me and sed i dont wanna loose you so wer back together!!!!and i will not be texting my ex ever again thats for sure!!!now ive properly learnt mi lesson!thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): Did he actually see what was on the texts? If not he probably thought that you were flirting with him or something, not talking about work. You could try showing him the texts but he might accuse you of deleting the flirty ones. Anyway, why out of all the people that you work with did you text your ex to talk about work? This relationship might be a lost cause because he doesn't trust you around your ex but then again put yourself in his situation. If you, him and his ex work at the same place (i don't know whether that could be a case or not) and he texted his ex would you be suspicious? Yes would probably be the right answer. And anyway why have you got your ex's mobile number still on your phone?
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