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writes: hi i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he is 53 i am 47 am.I'm in love with him but have found out he is an alcoholic and a drug user. He hid it so well, but 4 mths ago he got hepetitus and went yellow he stopped drinking but i really think he has started again. He always treated me bad when he was on it. Recently i asked him if he wanted me or not. we had a talk, he said he was sorry about the way he treated me and he was going to change. I was supposed to see him last nite. he said he got a job interview and couldnt at last minute. i asked where and his reply 'oh i see you're checking up on me again'.He wouldnt tell me where. I'm sure it was a lie. he then said he had enough of me and can do without this. i said fine and am so hurt after he convinced me he loved me. Why he do this to me? I dont know what to do, please help sue
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, RIZZY RIZZ, writes (1 March 2005): Hi sorry to hear that honey , but honestly you know you deserve better. you really dont need a drug user or someone who choose liquor over you.You should be the FIRST thing thats important to him. The Bible says a good woman will find a good man and i believe that. Love should be 50-50 from both sides. ask yourself this question, What has he really done for you that could help you in life? has he always kept his promises when he new he hurt your feelings or you? Do he make an effort to try to change? Honey you should not cry for him if he did not try any of these, your putting your heart on the line to be broken. Make a list of 10 good things he has done & 10 bad things he has done, if the bad out weigh the good theirs your answer.theirs always someone in the world that can treat and love you just how you wise it to be and when that good man come trust me you will no. dont let no man think he's better than you.Hope u feel better, Stay strong
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