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writes:i been talk to this guy over 3 yrs on the phone. We never went out. We talk about ever thing I only talk 2 times a week or if he sick i call ever other day check on him. I fell in love with him. I never told him right off but i did ask him how he felt about me He told me he like me more than a friend .I don't know because he lie to me about been marry, when he not. I know he gets mad when he see me with another guy, he even got mad when he though another guy going to ask me out. I guess he over hear him ,because they work together, they both are bus driver It took a while try tell him i wasn't going out with him . The guy I in love with don't what to date me, but he get's mad if he think i date or talk to another. Why does he do this? Is he in love with me? He don't won't to tellBeen lie to over 3yrs about been marry. He just has to tell me the truth or is it something else? I did tell him i was in love with him.All he say his feel was the same. He a lot older then me about 15 yrs.i don't what do. please help me thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 February 2016):
 He is playing mind games with you, no he doesn't love you, he doesn't want to be with you, but he is selfish and doesn't want anyone else to have you. He probably likes the attention that you give him, he likes that you care about him, but he doesn't feel the same. You are only feeding his ego.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (12 February 2016):
 WHO cares what HE wants? He already HAS a family and a wife, he doesn't OWN you!!
If I were you I'd block and delete his number. YOU don't need to be nice to this guy. And you DON'T need to let him keep stringing you along. HE is not a friend.
3 years and it went NO WHERE - because... he is married.
CUT him lose, cut him off and next time don't waste 3 years on a man who IS NOT worthy of your care and affection.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 February 2016):
 He is not in love with you.
Some people just don't share well. They don't want you but they don't want anyone else to want or have you either.
He is a time waster for you if he is preventing you emotionally from moving on to find a partner if that's what you want.
You can't count on him to be a partner. He's just a selfish person who wants your attentions all himself.
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