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writes: stepmother amd stepson she is 58 he is 51 she recently moved to another state,she e-mails,sends letters in the mail and calls him all the time,everything is very secretive between them.He says it is none of my bussiness.I think it is. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 I think that he is intitled to his privacy hunny. But I agree with you, I think that there could be something a bit fishy going on. I mean there is not a very big age gap at all. The thing is you are going to have to trust him until you find out otherwise. It could all be completely harmless afterall. I suggest you stop hassling him about his step mum and he may open up to you in time. Good luck
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (14 September 2006):
 give him his space everybody needs their space. i mean if some body wanted to read your letters excetra you wouldnt be very happy. thats his secretive thing like nearly everybody has secrets some people are bad things like their on drugs and stuff at least his are just letters from his step mom. hell show you the letters and emails in his own time what you need to do is give him his own private time before you lose him for that reason as not being able to have your own space because of some one is a very fustrateing thing.
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reader, Random211 +, writes (14 September 2006):
 A friend of mine was sleeping with his step mom. He tried to call it off after he met his girlfriend but his step mom threw a fit and threatened to tell his family it was all his idea in the first place and that she was the one who tried to end it. They are still sleeping together.
You need to demand to know the nature of this relationship. I'm not saying that there is definatly something going on that shouldn't be, but your worried there is and you deserve peace of mind. If he won't tell you ask her or her husband, chances are he's suspicious, too. Good luck!
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reader, Racheal +, writes (14 September 2006):
 Well hun, i'd be the same, i think to some extent you deserve to know whats going on, but on another level it's his step mom. Now i don't know if its a close nit relationship between them, and if it is just let them have a little bit of privacy. Maybe he'll tell you whats going on in his own time.
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