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writes:Please help! For the last week my boyfriend has seemed abit down he hasnt been his normal self and when i ask him what is wrong he says nothing, when there quite clearly is. i dont know wot is wrong and i dont know what i can do to make him feel better any ideas? He mentioned something bout his family annoying him, always hassling him for something like fixing internet or his nephew wanted him to play all the time when he just wants to relax. i really dont know what to do he seems to have lost interest in sex and doesnt seem to want to be with me as much. i just dropped him home after a night out and he usual asks if i would like to go in for bit or to stay but he didnt tonight he just said bye. What are your guys and girls thoughts on this? what could be wrong? is it something i have done? or his family? life in general? i dont know and i cant help if he dosnt talk to me, i know this is harsh but i dont like being around him when he is like this, i feel i have done something wrong and it upsets me, then he gets upset coz hes upset me and its a vicious circle. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Jessica-X +, writes (2 September 2007):
 If he says that there is a problem at home then I think you should believe him, because it sounds like you have been with him for quite a while. If this is correct [You being together for quite a while] then I think that you should believe him in all that he says, but you need to be careful here if you do and then something could go wrong, but I shant go into that now. It sounds like you didn't do anything because if you did then he wouldn't have gone out with you that night. As he said that it was his family, then I think it is. I think you could buy him a present to cheer him up like a box of chocolates or something. That usually does the trick. All you can really do is just let him know that he can always talk to you about anything, whether it is at home or what. I think that is all that you can really do.Good Luck!If you have any more questions then don't hesitate to ask me.[= Jessica =]
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reader, jezz +, writes (2 September 2007):
 i have been through the same thing, firstly if its something you have done he would not have gone on a night out with you at all. maybe its just life stresses getting him down.try and talk to him and get him to open up to you. (thats what your there for) all men are the same they dont open up as much as women. maybe he has had a bad life in the past at trusting people and is scared of opening up to you.just give him time he will go back to normal soon.good luck chick x
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