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He doesn't show his affection, am I doing something wrong? Just want to feel loved...

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Question - (22 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I've been coming to you guys for advice for time and a half and its always been great, so my predicament now is with.. my bf. Okay, him and I have been dating for about half a year now and I'm head over heels for him, and he says hes the same with me, but(yes the dreded but) he doesnt show it... Hes not affectionate, like.. at all, and its really depressing because I already have wretched self esteem and him not hugging and kissing me, complimenting me(EVER) is REALLY getting me down and I dont know what to do, he says he loves me, and yeah I'll get the odd kiss once or twice a day when ever we hang out, but he never wants to cuddle after we've done anything, or watching a movie etc.

Is it me? Am I doing somthing wrong? Guys if you could name out things that could possably make him, well love/care for me more that would be great, because all I want to do is be closer to him and I just want to feel loved...

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A female reader, Roses666 Canada +, writes (29 December 2008):

Roses666 agony auntThank you for the tips ^__^

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A female reader, vwomen United States +, writes (23 December 2008):

vwomen agony auntLove your self. start doing things like hanging out with friends get dressed up go out. Try it betcha he start paying attention then. Worked for me cant get him away now.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (22 December 2008):

Fatherly Advice agony auntSome people are more touchy than others. I've said it before guys are just a bit slow sometimes. You are going to have to tell him what you need. And train him to respond to your needs without prompting. This is going to move him out of his comfort zone, but is necessary to save the relationship. FA

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