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He doesn't seem interested...Could I be pushing him away???

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Question - (11 September 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2006)
A female , *onfussed jane writes:

my fiance seems off with me all the time also doesnt seem interested in me anymore he says he is but i think he is.he always has a go when i get jealous like he talks other lassies on msn and got numbers and when i said something he had a go at me and turned it round.like i cheated i regret it and i didnt relise what had till i bout lost him i never relised how much i loved him.i changed now alot so could be with him he all i want and want be with him forever.i got his trust back and all that but when i was jealous had go i dont talk 2 any guys on msn. i new his password he changed it and hasnt changed back wonder why so many things are going through my head.also there is and age diffrence between us.plus i dont see myself as good lookin i would say i was really ugly and think i am fat so when ever i am with my fiance and a better looking lassie walks past i think i feel so stupid for sayin this what can i do plz help xxxx

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntHere are the full lyrics.

If you're ugly, I'm ugly too

In your eyes the sky's a different blue

If you could see yourself like others do

You'd wish you were as beautiful as you

And I wish I was a camera sometimes

So, I could take your picture with my mind

Put it in a frame for you to see

How beautiful you really are to me

Ugly, Ugly

All of us just feel like that somedays

Ain't no rainbow in the sky

When you feel U.G.L.Y.

And that's ugly, yeah, yeah, yeah

Ugly, Ugly

All of us just feel like that somedays

Ain't no rainbow in the sky

When you feel U.G.L.Y.

And that's ugly, ugly

All of us just feel like that somedays

Ain't no cure that you can buy

When you feel U.G.L.Y.

And that's ugly

So, if you're ugly, I'm ugly too

If you're a nut, then I must be a screw

If you couls see yourself the way I do

You'd wish you were as beautiful as you

I wish I was as beautiful as you

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntI am in a similar situation, my fiancee does not believe me when I say she is beautiful, she is always putting herself down and says no whenever I say she is sexy or beautiful. She says my ex and friends are more beautiful than her, which is not true. I tell her she is beautiful a million times a day, but she will never believe it.

It is like the Bon Jovi song, Ugly.

i wish i was a camera sometimes

so i could take your picture with my mind

put it in a frame for u to see

how beautiful you really are to me.

She has low self esteem, but I love her more than anything and never want to lose her. I am sure your fiance feels just the way I do.

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A female reader, confussed jane +, writes (11 September 2006):

confussed jane is verified as being by the original poster of the question

yes he tell me i am beautiful and loves me and all that. you got point what if i ant good anouth for him. the lassies he talkes 2 r better looking i just dont no what to do i love him more than anything and dont want lose him be lost without him.

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A male reader, Toohonesty +, writes (11 September 2006):

My screen name is too honest so im sorry if i offend u, but you are not ready for mariage, you need to sort yourself out first, secondly one of the reasons for unstable marriages is age difference if you cant cope with your own life and your self esteem problems i cant see you coping with the age difference

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A female reader, Shannon United Kingdom +, writes (11 September 2006):

i agree with babygirl, you need to be happy with urself. i am sure your fiance does not think you are fat and ugly. does he tell u how he feels about u?

y do u not trust him? has he cheated before?

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A female reader, rachyg +, writes (11 September 2006):

rachyg agony auntif u feel like this you need to tell him yano. if he didnt fink you was beautiful he wudnt be wiv u!! maybe he has a problem on the internet sum plp have an addiction u no n cant help it just try n talk 2 him about it x

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