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female
age
36-40,
*omanilove
writes:I have been dating this guy for about a month. We both recently ended relationships . We have gone on 2 dates so far. Last Thursday, He asked to get together for Friday and he never contacted me until 8:30 Friday night. he was sweet and told me he missed me. I made it clear that I didn't accept that because he wouldn't of left me hanging. he called me and apologized and told me he had a crazy day. He told me was free the next day and wouldn't be doing anything if I wanted to get together, but i did not contact him. Recently, he asked me if I wanted to get together on the weekend (via text). I said I did, but to let me know a day and time . He didn't reply and hasn't contacted me since then (2 days ). I am confused because he calls me after each date, he keeps coming around and wants to see me during the week but he never asks before hand, and i am usually busy. what's his deal??
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reader, xanthic +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Usually, people do this when they're holding out for something better to come along. If that's not the case, he's just a flake. Either way, it's very inconsiderate on his part and shouldn't be tolerated. If he can't do something as simple as give you more notice than a few hours he's not worth the time you'll inevitably waste waiting for him to make up his mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): It means nothing better has come up so you are the last resort person he calls. He has a mild interest and is hoping you'll be desperate enough to jump at his last minute requests. I would stop talking to him and move on to the next guy.
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