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sweetansexy62
writes: after nearly 3 years and a baby,why does my partner still rarely complement me,still be unromantic, unappreciative and resentful if i challenge any of the subjects,yet we have a great time together physicaly and mentaly and enjoy each others company. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): My guy is exactly the same, and I believe that it is because he was deeply hurt by his ex and is worried about it happening again. She hid some important information from him for 2 1/2 years and then found out from a third person and was deeply embarrassed and humiliated by it. My boyfriend sounds exactly like yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): whatever is going on with your guy right now your relationship should always be a priority,you should be pulling together as couples do be there for each other not being pushed out or kept in the dark,tell him how you feel an how you feel affected by not being part of his problems as your a part of his life
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): Maybe this is in your imagination because you love being the center of attention.Has he got other things going on in his life,and maybe youre just not the center of it at this moment? Have you thrown any kindness back at him? Betrayed him? Broke his confidence? If he has been like this from the start,then you knew,so stop trying to change him.If he wasnt,then maybe you have the answers.If you cant handle it,move on.
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reader, glassofwater +, writes (29 September 2006):
some guys are just inconsiderate. talk to him about it.
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reader, manc simon +, writes (27 September 2006):
He may be building a barrier through fear of being hurt or let down. Its hard to make an assumption,but he`s still there after 3 years surely must mean he loves you.Do you appreciate him too? Do you treat him nicely and listen?Have you ever thrown any of his past up at him? Are you demanding? Was he like this from day 1? He could have been really hurt by someone and its affected him.Have you thought that if you cant accept him the way he is,then its likely in the long run,you could drive him away.
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Has he always been this way or is it something new?
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