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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I've been dating this guy for a year. When I met him he swore he was separated from his wife of ten years, mother of four children. When she found out about me she put a restraining order against him and me and him went through hell to try to get the kids back. I moved in with him. We fixed the house she tore apart. I dumped so much money into the house, and his bail money, and the rent. Then, a month later, I come home and he ends it with me, telling me he's taking her back. I'm shocked. I moved to another state, but only for a week because some legal issues happened with something else and I wanted to deal with it. So I come home and we talk again. The wife is pregnant. Child #5. Stupidly, I take him back some time later.He does everything for her. I always come last.How do I end this?He said he already filed for divorce papers. I know he loves me. He really is very sweet to me, but I'll never escape his idiot of a wife. What do I do? Wait for him to get it right? Or bail out now?He can't support me. I support myself.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (8 May 2009):
 If a man cannot support you then he is no good! You need to escape this situation now before he takes you for another ride! Shame on him for doing it once but sahme on you if he gets to do it for a second time. Dump him and leave! X
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