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writes:I feel like I'm losing my boyfriend :(We've been together 2 years, and I'm going away for college in 2 months, so we'll be in an LDR. He's been distant the past week, (even forgetting our 2 year anniversary) and I just get this vibe that it's a start to us possibly not making this LDR work. He also doesn't call like he used to, not as frequent, and gets irritated easily when we're apart. I noticed he hasn't even said 'I love you' in a really long time. I'm really hurt by this, are these signs that our relationship is coming to a close?
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Hii.. Well first thing a LDR is hard for most people I should know.. But all depends on how much you love eachother and want it to work.. Maybe he's just upset that your leaving and only way to express it is to be (off) with you.. Try talk to him and see what's going wrong in his head.. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): Hi im a female in a long distance relation ship to and it sounds to me like you need to have a seriouse talk to him asking if he really wants to do this LDR thing. It seems like he has worries about it. But talk to him tell him everything you feel. whats the worst that could happen? I know its hard hun and upsetting but talking is the only way to sort this type of thing out cause if you just let it play out it might get worst if you talk about it now you could save alot of thinking and troubling feelings you have. Maybe its his way of dealing with things? maybe he's upset about you going when men get upset they avoid the proublem and never wanna talk about it, but you need to sit him down face to face before you leave and talk about if your willing and he' willing to do the whole LDR cause if you both arent happy with it, it could lead to trust issues with one another or maybe even cheating so it is important that you talk to him aboout it.
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