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writes:Hi I don't really know where to start here so here goes I met a man 19 months ago who had just split up from his long term girlfriend he said he needed time to get his head sorted which I understood now it has been so long I feel like he is just messing me around we started sleepeng together which I know was a stupid thing to do we haven't saw or spooken to each other for about 4 months now as he moved home and he didn't bother to get in contact with me anymore but he saw me the other day and made a point of talking to me he asked how I was and why I hadn't been in touch I just said I hadn't heard from you for ages he said he would come round but he didn't and I haven't heard from him since what do you think I should do I really like him should I text him or not if so what should I say thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2012): I agree with Aunt Honesty 100%. Forget this man he is a user playing with your feelings. Dont have sex if he ever shows up,thats all he wants. Move forward ,18 months is long enough to waste of your life.He knows where you live and has not bothered to come see you or phoned you in months.There is NOTHING to like about him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 August 2012):
 No I don't think you should bother messaging him, if he was interested he would have got in contact with you. It sounds to me like he did not want to have anything serious with you, and you where a rebound, as harsh as it may sound it was probably just about sex for him and as soon as he moved home he did not need to keep in contact with you any more. When he saw you he probably felt like he had to talk to you, but again he filled your head with empty promises about contacting you and coming to see you. My guess is that if he really wanted to he would, but also if he does some day come to visit do not have sex with him, because that is probably all he wants. He is in no way serious about you, so the best thing that you can do is move forward with your life.
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