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He didn't invite me to the Barbeque and also acted differently.What should I do?

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Question - (6 August 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2015)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I met a guy at work... We went on a date and hit it off. I was a little worried that his friends at work would put ideas in his head.

I expressed how i felt more than once and he told me I was becoming annoying with it. I back off a little bit..

There was a barbeque that I wasn't invited to and he went and told everyone not to invite me.

After that he started to act different towards me and I do like him. What should I do?

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A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (7 August 2015):

Ciar agony auntNothing. There is nothing for you to do here.

I suspect you may have come on a bit strong or seemed a bit needy/clingy and he was put off by it.

He's not interested and wants as much space between you as possible, so I say give it to him.

Write this one off and move on.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (6 August 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntDon't waste your time with this guy. His signals - that he isn't much interested in you - are pretty clear....

Good luck...

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (6 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntLeave him be, he isn't interested.

And in the future... don't use your workplace as a dating pool because WHEN things don't work out (like in this case) things can get awkward and uncomfortable.

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