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He did reply to say he was busy, do you think this is a blow off, or do I still stand a chance ?

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Question - (14 April 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *ynda writes:

a few weeks ago i sent this text to a man i really do like it read, sorry for texting you yesterday i was a little anxious, i know you are a busy man and it wont happen again i must be getting on your nerves, i bet i have put you off that drink now ? he replyed back and said, sorry i did not reply yesterday i was busy dealing with a job, no problems. what do you think he is saying ? do you think he still wants to meet for that drink or do you think i have blown it ?

lynda

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007):

I would never use text messaging to talk to a man I am interested in, I think they are very annoying, and really designed for emergency use or to contact someone for an appointment when they cannot accept a phonen call, for something that needs to be taken care of right now, not later.

Wait a week and if he does not call you, call him and speak to him or leave a voice message, and then wait for a return phone call. If he takes more than 24 hours to call you back, then he is either not interested that much, or is playing hard to get, and guys usually don't do that if they really like you for very long.

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A female reader, peppersalt United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2007):

I don't think he is interested. You put yourself down to him which doesn't create a very good impression, and although you asked if he had been put off the drink he didn't say anything in reply to that. Which clearly insinuates that he doesn't hugely want to. Move on!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007):

it wont hurt to give it one more shot.. if he makes up excuses then forget about it..

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2007):

shania agony auntAsk him again when he wants to meet up for a drink....if he gives out the same excuse then you will know he's not interested.

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